5 Rare Qualities All Men Secretly Want In A Woman
Men won’t always name the qualities they really look for in women. If you’ve ever overheard them talking with their buddies about girls, you’ll have surely heard them saying how they want a girl who is hot, has the perfect body and great legs. Rarely will you hear them discuss the things they really look for in a woman. Because of this, it’s hard for women to give men what they want during the early days of dating. We try to second guess what they want, and more often than not end up showing them the wrong side of us. Sure, men are attracted to the way a woman looks. If she has great hair, eyes they can get lost in, and legs that seem to go on forever, they will of course be attracted to that. But attraction is based on more than just physical appearances. It’s based on inner qualities; timeless traits that make a woman glow. It’s based on the way a woman acts, the way she composes herself and handles situations. It’s based on how warm, kind and loving she is – how feminine she is. To be the perfect package for a man, there are 5 rare qualities in a lady that most men love and secretly want – even if they won’t admit it to their buddies!
Of course, not everyone is close to their family. For whatever unfortunate reason, some of us have grown apart from ours. If you’re not close to yours, it doesn’t mean you’re not the right woman for him. After all, you can always get close to his family. If you are close to your own family, it instantly makes you more attractive to a man. Guys like it when women have a stable, strong family behind them who support each other. It tells the man that a woman comes from a well-reared background based on family values. This is important to a man, because family values are things they look for when choosing a partner. They want a woman who wants to meet their own family, who is great with the kids, who looks after her mom, and who has proven herself to be a team player. Being family oriented also shows that you come from a dependable background full of love, warmth and happiness, and a guy will hope that you can bring that love, warmth and happiness into your relationship with him. Guys generally look for women who have been taught certain values by their family, and they look at the family to see what kind of person you will be. If your family is genuine, playful, open, giving, tolerant and warm-hearted, it tells them that you will be, too. Again, if for whatever reason you don’t see your family much these days, the next best thing is to show a man that you’re prepared to fall in love with his.
Guys won’t always say it out loud, but they want a woman to be a woman. What does this mean? It means they fall in love with what distinguishes a woman from a man. They fall in love with their warmth and kindness. They fall in love with a woman’s tender heart and her ability to calm arguments down. They fall in love with a woman who likes to wear pretty dresses, and who takes care of her appearance. Although they get annoyed when a woman takes forever to get ready, they appreciate the time and effort she’s made into making herself look special for date night. Sure, you can wear your sweat pants in the house now and then. But for the most part, they want you to embrace your femininity. Guys don’t want women who act like guys. They want you to be 100% woman.
Woman always say they want a man, not a boy. But have you ever stopped to think that a man wants a woman and not an overly emotional child? Some women find it hard to control their emotions. Guys don’t want to get involved with an emotionally unstable woman who loses her self-control at the push of a button.
How independent you are is the big question. Guys like women who live a life separate to the relationship. They have their own passions and interests, and they want you to have yours, too. However, although they want you to independent, they also want you to be dependent on the for some things. If you’re too independent, it will be like you don’t even need them! Men look for women who aren’t needy, and who are prepared to do things without their guy. They don’t want a woman who literally won’t leave the house without her man. Just don’t push your independence too far. He needs to know you need him too.
A guy will look at who you hang around with for two reasons. First, he’ll judge you by the company you keep. If your friends are awesome, you must be awesome, too! Second, he’ll take a look at who you hang around with and how often to gauge how sociable you are. A guy isn’t looking for a woman who doesn’t know how to keep friends. Instead, he wants a social butterfly who loves to meet new people, and who has a healthy circle of friends. Why? It tells him a lot about you. A woman who has good social skills usually has great communication skills and is clearly a winner when it comes to building strong, lasting relationships. If you have no friends, it tells him that there is something about you that tends to put people off. Moreover, he’ll one day want to introduce you to his friends and family. If you’ve shown that you get along with people, he’ll be a lot more excited about this.