10 Things you should say to your partner on a daily basis
When you find that you have the person that you want to be with, for the rest of your life, then that is when the hard work really starts, because once the honeymoon period is over, you’ll find that you need to put in some effort to keep the spark alive. One way to do this is to just remember to say things to your partner that remind them of your love for them, and here are ten things, just like that, that you can say to your partner every day.
1. Good morning and good night
When you are together, and when you are separated, always make it a habit to start and end your day by talking to your partner. A simple ‘good morning, I love you’, will start every day off on the right foot and a ‘Goodnight, darling, see you tomorrow’ will remind you both that tomorrow is another beautiful day to look forward to.
2. You are the one
Your partner is the ‘one and only’, so why not tell them that every day. They are your best friend, your only lover and the only one you want to be with and telling them that every day will strengthen the bond and the commitment that there is between you.
3. I missed you
You don’t have to be parted for long periods of time to miss one another; you can miss your partner while they are working too. You probably would rather be at home together, so tell them so, and tell them you can’t wait for them to come home again.
4. How did your day go?
This one can become a bit of a meaningless statement, if you don’t listen to the answer, but sharing the events of your day with your partner is an important way to ensure that you share your lives. It can also help you understand each other’s moods better and if one of you has had a bad day, then the other can offer support.
5. I’m sorry
Not a word that has to be used every day, but you should be prepared to use the word ‘sorry’ when it’s needed. Everyone makes mistakes sometimes and sometimes you can hurt your partner even when you don’t mean to. Saying ‘sorry’ means that you care and it shows that you want to put things right.
6. I’m happy
Letting your partner know that you value the relationship and that it makes you happy is a great way to say ‘thanks for being around’. We all need to feel loved and appreciated and to know that we are doing the right things. Tell your partner that he makes you happy and it will give him the feedback that he needs.
6. What are we going to do tonight?
Don’t let the relationship stagnate and get into too much of a routine. If you know what you will be doing every single evening, you will both become bored, so go out on date nights, change the routines and keep things fresh and interesting.
7. Can I help you with that?
When you offer a helping hand, you show that you are a team and that you support one another. There is no such thing as a woman’s chore or a man’s chore; they are just chores that need to get done.
8. You look great
Tell your partner they still look great and you will give their ego a boost and let them know that you have no interest in anyone else. This can be especially important in a long term relationship, because it also tells your partner that you are not taking them for granted or have become bored with them.
9. I understand and respect what you say
Listening to your partner’s point of view and respecting it, even when you don’t agree with them, is also important in a healthy relationship. Let them know that you appreciate their mind, as much as you do everything else and never talk down to them or disrespect their opinions.
10. I love you
However long you have been with your partner, you should never stop saying ‘I love you’. Of all these things that we have listed here, ‘I love you’ is the easiest one that you could say and the most important one of all.
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Stay happy, love and be loved!