10 Things That Will Happen When You Meet Your Soulmate
Won’t it be amazing when you meet your soulmate? But what actually happens when you meet him? Do things stay pretty much the same? Or does life get a bit more magical?
I first heard about the idea of a soulmate when I was still in school. I hadn’t even been on a first date by this point, yet my friends were talking about one day meeting their soulmate.
“Mom, what’s a soulmate?” I asked when I returned home (I didn’t want to embarrass myself in front of my friends by looking like I didn’t know what a soulmate was!).
“A soulmate is someone who you want to spend the rest of your life with because that’s how much the two of you get along,” is how I remember my mom explaining it.
It wasn’t really a satisfactory explanation to me at the time. After all, I had a lot of friends who I got along with REALLY well. Were they all my soul mates?
A soulmate is certainly someone above average to you. They’re the person whose soul perfectly matches your own. You can talk to them about anything. You can give your life up to them because you know you can trust them infinitely.
Words, however, don’t do a good job at expressing what a soulmate is. Feelings do it better. When you meet your soulmate, you two click so well that just know it. Spiritually and physically, they harmonise with you.
Let’s take a look at 10 things that will happen when you meet your soulmate.
The Way You See The World Suddenly Changes
I’ve met my soulmate, so I can speak from experience on this one.
When you meet your soulmate, something quite remarkable suddenly happens. All of a sudden, the world is brighter, more cheery, more colourful. You feel positive and thankful for every morning that you wake up.
Your happiness and optimism is back tenfold. You are kind to other people again. You are compassionate, forgiving and joyous.
It’s an amazing feeling. Even if you were happy before you met your soulmate, you’ve never known happiness quite like this before.
You’re Ready To Be Vulnerable
It’s really hard to be vulnerable around people, primarily because society has conditioned us to not be vulnerable.
But when you meet your soulmate, you’re ready to give yourself up to him entirely. This means you’re ready to tell him all your thoughts, concerns, dreams and worries. You’re finally ready to open up to someone, and you know he will embrace you and all your complexities. You can trust him. You know he’s got you.
You Smile More Than Ever
Meeting your soulmate instantly makes you more giddy. You can’t stop smiling! You listen to all your favourite songs again – over and over – and they make you grin from ear to ear.
You smile when you’re with him, as well as when you’re not with him. You smile when you think about him, when he texts you, and especially when he calls you!
In fact, you smile so much that your friends and family just have to ask what’s changed. Why are you smiling all the time?!
Life Really Does Begin To Feel Magical
Life is no longer ordinary – it’s extraordinary. Meeting your soulmate was a miracle. It’s opened up the possibilities of further miracles. And why not? Life is magical after all.
You’re More Productive At Work
I don’t know about you, but my productivity slips whenever I don’t feel loved up. I’m not saying that I need a man specifically to perk me up, but if I’m feeling as though love is missing, I’m not 100%.
Lots of people are like this. We need someone by our sides to help us build momentum and to keep going through difficult periods.
If things are going slow at work, just thinking about your soulmate can give you enough fuel to get you through the day. No longer are you returning home to an empty house and a TV dinner – you’re returning to him. As such, you’re motivated to own this day at work. You’re prepared to get things done.
You Laugh More Than Ever
Your soulmate is your lover and your best friend, and he’s also the one who can make you laugh more than anyone else.
It’s not always what he says that makes you laugh, it’s also what he does.
Sometimes he doesn’t do or say anything, but you laugh anyway because that’s how in love you are.
You Know You Can Achieve Your Dreams
Sure, you’ve always had dreams. But did you ever really think you could achieve them by yourself? Now that you’ve got your soulmate by your side, anything seems possible.
Your World Is Opened Up To New Things
When we meet average people we don’t like all that much, we’re not really inclined to go out of our way to learn about their hobbies and interests.
It’s a different story, however, when it comes to our soul mate. We want to know all about them and what makes them tick. We want to be a part of their world.
If this means discovering a new religion we never previously has any interest in, so be it. If it means becoming more open about sports, so gosh darn be it!
Love Is Everywhere
Love certainly wasn’t everywhere before you meet him. Now that he’s in your life, it’s all you can feel. All the negative emotions have gone away.
You Become The Best Version Of Yourself
When our friends are loved up but we’re not, it can be really easy to feel down about things. We compare our lack of happiness to the of happiness our friends have, and maybe we feel slightly bitter, negative, or even jealous. As a result, we’re not the best version of ourselves.
Things change mightily when you meet your soulmate. You value what you have with them, and it makes you realise the importance of being positive, and achieving your goals. You want to be the best you can be at all times.