10 Signs That You’ve Found The Love Of Your Life
What do you want most out of life? We’re guessing if you’ve landed on this article, you want happiness and to find love. But what if you’ve already found love? How would you know? In this article, Beauty and Tips reveals the 10 signs that you’ve found the love of your life.
Being in love is arguably the most exciting emotion there is. It’s the purest escapism of all. It’s like we’re floating on cloud nine, living in a fantasy world where only good things happen. We get to come home each day to our Prince Charming – we’re living in our own fairy tale! Only, it’s not fantasy; it’s very real!
Wondering if we’re in love is even more tantalising. We feel butterflies in our stomach at the thought that we’re in love, and we feel giddy. But we want to be cautious too, because we’re not 100% sure. And the love of our life? Wondering if you’re in love with your soul mate has to be the most insanely exciting feeling in the world. It’s like being a kid at Christmas again, wishing that the HUGE gift under the tree is what you asked Santa for. You pick it up and shake it, press it to your ear and listen. You’re 90% sure it is what you think it is, but there is still a tiny bit of doubt. You’re positively bursting with excitement and curiosity – you can’t wait any longer! If this is how you feel right now, let’s take a look at the 10 signs that you’ve found the love of your life.
You’ve Prepared Emotionally For This
Maybe when you guys first got together you still had a few emotional wounds and insecurities that were left open and sore. Perhaps you had anger issues that stemmed from being hurt and left frustrated last time around. However, for the new man in your life, you’ve been prepared to work on your insecurities and emotional wounds. And the biggest thing? You didn’t wait for him to come and “heal” you. You sorted your issues out yourself. Why? Because you had a feeling that he was worth it.
It Feels Like This Could Go On Forever
“To infinity and beyond!”
That’s how it feels like. There is never a dull moment, and you never feel bored or tired. You feel as though this could continue forever. And that excites you.
He Shares Your Values
A surprising amount of people don’t know what their values are. But once you know what your values are, you start to look for people (often unconsciously) who share yours.
How does his values line up with yours? Are they the same? If they’re wildly different instead, it will be a deal breaker somewhere down the line.
He Supports You, No Matter What
Got a huge dream that everyone else seems to think is ridiculous? Not him. He’s going to support you, no matter what. He’ll be your biggest cheerleader who will encourage you to dare to dream and scale those heights.
You Found Your Purpose At The Same Time As You Found Him
How were you feeling when you first met your partner? What were you doing in life, what was life like?
When we meet the love of our life, it’s often while we’re on our personal journey to finding our purpose. Sometimes, the love of our life enters the picture just when we’ve found our purpose. If you ever listen to successful people talk about how they met their partners, they’ll tell you how they pictured their soulmate first. They pictured everything about them, from how they met them to what their partner looks like. Remarkably, the reality is often eerily similar to these visions.
Crucially, though, these same individuals had already decided their purpose. Once you know your purpose in life, it often follows that the right people – including the love of your life – find you. Why? Because they are a part of your purpose!
You Trust Him
You don’t just trust him a bit. You trust him with your whole life. You know deep down that he won’t let you down. He’s there for, always. He’ll be there for you in the good times and the bad times, and you just know that if he has any concerns at all about the relationship, he’ll raise them with you.
When we’re with the love of our life, the one thing we don’t do is stay still. Instead, we grow and grow. Our soulmate’s are there to love us and pick us up whenever we feel down. But they’re also there to challenge us, to push us and to help us grow as a person. We learn with them, evolve with them, and keep moving forward with them. If this sounds like you, it’s another sign that you’ve found the love of your life.
You Can Be Yourself!
You never have to put on a mask or feel like there are things you can’t say around him. You can say and do whatever you want because you feel comfortable enough to be exactly who you are. And he encourages that.
The Future Excites You
Before he came into your life, how did you feel about the future? Was it something you were super excited about? Or were you dreading it and kinda hoping that it wouldn’t happen just yet? Now that he’s in your life, how do you feel about your future? Does it excite you to think of it? Does it give you goosebumps and make you want to leap out of bed in the morning, ready to do everything in your powers to make sure an awesome future happens?
He’s Never Once Put You Down
We’ve probably all dated a loser at some point who seems to revel in putting us down. He made us feel like a total loser. Not the love of your life. He’ll never put you down. Instead, he’ll lift you right up to the heavens whenever you feel down.