10 Helpful tips on how to grow as a person

It’s part of human nature to constantly aspire higher and higher, to want to accomplish more and more, and, ultimately, become a superior being to what you were in the past. That’s a natural drive that makes us what we are, but there’s also bad news. We like settling into ruts and once we’re there, it becomes difficult to fulfill our aspirations. They remain dreams that we never make come true and the saddest part is that we can. We can do anything as long as we want it strongly enough. Here’s how.

1. Get to know yourself better

Our first tip on how to grow as a person is to get to know yourself better. Improving any aspect of your life or personality would be impossible if you don’t know yourself, and this includes not just your good qualities, but the bad ones as well. Instead of repeatedly telling yourself that you’re not good enough, pretty enough or smart enough, or, on the contrary, exaggerating your good sides and ignoring the bad ones, admit to both. You are smart, pretty, and good at something, get used to that thought. Yet since none of us are perfect, we have some bad qualities too, such as being lazy or gossipy. If you can’t face your disadvantages, you won’t be able to overcome them.

2. Never stop learning

Constant learning is another important tip on how to grow as a person. This applies with equal force to your professional and your personal life. The thing is that we live in a very fast-changing world, the pace at which we live is much more hectic than that of our ancestors, so we need to adjust accordingly. Take training classes in your field of expertise, for instance, or venture into a new one, into something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the courage. Read, and read a lot, but not “50 Shades of Grey”. You’ve read that already, anyway. Read authors you’ve never read before, authors you’ve heard someone else praise or criticise. You might find your new favourite author this way and there are few things that can compare to the pleasure of this discovery.

3. Stay optimistic and positive

Life can be hard, sometimes so hard that it’s impossible to see any light at the end of the tunnel. Yet, such light comes sooner or later, and it’s not an oncoming train most of the time. So, our next tip on how to grow as a person is to try to remain positive, regardless of what life throws at you. A positive attitude can make so many things easier. It’s easier to get a new job if you radiate positivity and not depression. Companies don’t hire people because they feel sorry for them. It’s easier to develop a wholesome, fulfilling relationship if you’re optimistic about it and not constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop. Positivity is a key contributing factor of success, let’s put it that way.

4. Don’t run away from problems

Problem-solving skills are essential in any walk of life. In fact, most of the time we solve problems without even thinking about it but when we encounter bigger ones, sometimes our first impulse is to run in the opposite direction. That’s not the best attitude. Solving problems can be a real eye-opener. First, it teaches you patience. Second, it teaches you that you are fully capable of dealing with problems. Third, it teaches you that no problem is unsolvable. That’s a lot of teaching in just one problem, right? And it’s worth every second, as long as you have the eyes to see this.

5. Embrace change

Remember that rut we like so much? The reason we like it is that aspiring as we are to become better people, we are afraid of change. That’s evolution for you, change means something unknown and unknown things could be dangerous, so we shy away from them. However, growing as a person means changing, it’s as simple as that. Venturing into a new professional field is a change, and so is starting your own business. Everything that will make you a better person involves some kind of change. So, instead of trudging on in your tiny little rut of a career, lest some monster bite you if you raise your head, dare yourself and don’t just raise your head, but jump out of the rut.

6. Don’t take things personally

This one can be much tougher than all the rest of these tips on how to grow as a person. Learning not to take anything personally in a way goes counter to everything we have been taught to believe when we were growing up. Yet the fact remains – whenever someone is mean to you, it’s not your fault, it’s theirs. Actually, fault isn’t even the right word. The thing is that every person inhabits their own mental world, and they have their own perspective on things that often differs from yours. Conflicts arise out of these differences but you can’t change other people’s perspective, and you cannot, repeat that, cannot be responsible for their actions. The only actions you can and must be responsible for are your own. Period.

How to grow as a person? What are your tips?

Stay happy!

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