9 Reasons why nice guys make the best husbands

Where have all the Mr Nice Guys gone? The solid, reliable, uncomplicated and trustworthy ones, the ones that are just made for wedded bliss? They’re still out there, but they’re in hiding, because our modern society dictates that a man should be more metro man than Mr Nice Guy now. But, while Metro man might be more fun on a date, it’s Mr Nice Guy that makes the best husband and here are nine reasons why:

1. Mr Nice Guy will always put his family first

A man who puts his family first and wants to spend time with them is a man who will be there for you when you need him. Family values sometimes seem to be a thing of the past, but it still holds true, that a man who respects his mother, is more likely to respect you.

2. Mr Nice Guy believes in marriage

The vows that you both make in a wedding ceremony are vows that Mr Nice Guy will take seriously. Whether your ceremony is a religious one or not, he is a man who still believes in fidelity, true love and in marriage being a partnership for life. For better or for worse, really means something to this man.

3. Mr Nice guy lives his life by a moral code

Mr Nice guy knows the difference between right and wrong. He will make decisions based upon his strong moral code and that strength will make him a great father too.

4. Mr Nice Guy has a purpose in life

This kind of guy has purpose and drive in life. He knows what he wants and he’s going to get it. His aims are not selfish though, he wants things for his family, as well as himself, and he won’t tread on others to get these things. Mr Nice Guy won’t be drifting in and out of jobs and bars, he wants to get the best he can for his family.

5. Mr Nice Guy is strong in times of difficulty

Mr Nice Guy won’t give up easily, when things get tough. He doesn’t run from adversity, he will find solutions and fix things in his own way. Some might think that Mr Nice guy is weak, because he puts his family before himself, but that is a sign of his strength and another reason why he makes a great husband.

6. Mr Nice Guy will share his life with you

The nice men don’t dominate their wives, they share their lives with them. Mr Nice guy will be as happy to celebrate your growth, successes and achievements, as he will be happy about his own.

7. Mr Nice Guy respects your femininity

Equality is all fine and proper, but this guy also respects and cherishes your femininity. He loves you for who you are and not just what you like and he loves to treat you like a lady.

8. Mr Nice Guy never lies

You always know that this kind of guy is always going to tell you the truth. There’s no wondering what he really meant, where he really is or what he’s been up to, because this man never lies; it’s against his moral code. Trust is the foundation of a healthy relationship and happy marriage, and Mr Nice Guy knows and respects this.

9. Mr Nice Guy has self-respect

Before you respect others, you need to be able to respect yourself. Mr Nice Guy is confident and proud and he would never do anything to embarrass himself, let alone you. He takes care of himself, as well as his family and you will always be proud to be around him.

So, do nice guys make the best husbands? On our opinion, yes!

What kind of guys do you prefer? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comment section below.

Stay happy!


  1. el
    March 28, 2014 at 10:56 pm

    Mr nice guy has woken up and realised he’s not going to be an emotional blanket for any woman while she sleeps around with the bad boys then tries to find him when she hits her thirties to “settle down” welcome to the dawning of a new age ladies!

  2. Lena
    February 26, 2014 at 6:49 pm

    Hi there, I just wanted to say, I agree!

  3. Jinna
    February 24, 2014 at 7:50 am

    Yes totally true!

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