What are the important things you should know about guys?
Often, we, ladies, think that we understand men, we presume that guys have similar to our own needs and desires and we try to talk to them in “our own language”. But guys are, actually, quite different. They have their special way of seeing things and their needs are, sometimes, oppisite to ours. Today, ladies, let’s talk about some important things to know about guys, that can make your relationship with your gentleman easier, happier and more fulfilled:
1) Guys want to be respected
Yes, men desire to be respected and, even, admired. This is, probably, one of the most important needs that guys have. If you give respect, appreciation and admiration to your partner, you will not only reap the reward of happier relationship, but also, you will give him “wings” to achieve greatness and success.
2) They need your support
Often, behind a great man, there is a great woman. Not many people know that this woman was the only person who has ever seen her man’s insecurities, she was the only one who has ever seen him crying, she always was there to help him out, she has never let him down. Faithful support of loving woman is an important ingredient of man’s success.
3) Guys want to be desired
This is one of the main reasons why guys love spending time in bedroom. I think that further explanation is unnecessary, everyone knows that guys do love it. Therefore, never neglect intimacy with your partner and make sure to keep the sparkle alive.
4) Men do care about how you look
Guys, actually, do appreciate all the efforts you make, in order to look gorgeous for them, even though many men don’t word it very often. Guys love it when you look feminine, when you wear dresses and elegant clothes. They like it when their wife/girlfriend looks amazing and when they catch admiring glances of other people staring at her, it makes them proud. Therefore, ladies, your efforts aren’t in vain!
5) Guys need their personal space, as much as you do
Men, just like ladies, do need to spend time on their own, when they can think, analyze things and relax. Therefore, don’t be offended when he doesn’t feel like talking, it doesn’t mean that he is bored by your company; just provide him with an opportunity to spend some time on his own, let him recharge his batteries, he needs it.
6) They enjoy romance
The fact that guys enjoy romance, just as much as we, girls, do, sometimes, doesn’t seem very evident; it’s because guys, often, doubt their ability to be romantic; therefore, encourage him and give him your appreciation, instead of criticizing and asking: “Where are my flowers?!!!”…If you give him more love, he will start taking more initiative to be romantic, bringing you more flowers, making more surprises and giving you more attention.
7) Guys don’t know what to say on a first date
Sometimes, while on the first date, guys can lose their usual communication skills, especially, if they really like a lady in front of them. Therefore, girls, if your first date with that new guy was disastrous and you’ve spent plenty of time in silence, don’t take quick decisions just yet, give it another try.
8) Men too like to look at themselves in the mirror
Well, yes, guys too like to look great, they like to dress up nicely and they do like to admire themselves looking in the mirror, there is nothing bad about it. So, next time you are standing in front of a mirror, make sure to move over and give him place. 😉
9) He can’t read your thoughts
Often, if we, girls, have something against our partner, we tend to get silent and look offended, thus, trying to make him understand that something is wrong. But the truth is – he won’t understand anything, till you just tell him and explain. Life can becomes a lot easier, when you understand that guys can’t read your thoughts, you need to put it all into words.
I hope you’ve found this relationship advice for women somewhat useful and these tips can help to make your relationship with your partner even happier. Feel free to share your thoughts on this subject in the comment’s section below.