9 Flirty text message ideas for Valentine’s Day

If you’ve been too shy all year long to let your crush know what you are thinking, then that time of year is fast approaching, when it gets a whole lot easier. Valentine’s Day is the perfect time for a little flirty texts; there’s no pressure, no awkward conversations, just a great chance to test the water with a line of text and, if it all goes horribly wrong, then you can say you were only joking! If you’re sitting fumbling with your keys trying to work out a witty line, then we give you our top nine flirty texts for this Valentine’s Day:

1. Just leave it blank

You will be guaranteed a response, if you send him a text that says nothing! When he responds, no doubt wondering what on earth your text was all about; you have the beginnings of a conversation to take wherever you want it to go.

2. ‘I’m calling the cops!’

That’ll get him in a sweat and when he replies, you can respond with ‘Because you stole my heart’

3. ‘I had a dream about you last night…’

This is a good one for any time of year and he’s got to ask you about the dream. Just be prepared with an answer and don’t make the dream a steamy one, if you don’t know him well, that could be a bit too much too soon.

4. ‘Wish you were here…’

One of the cutest flirty text message ideas for Valentine’s day would be: ‘I wish you were here’…Let him know that you’d rather be with him tonight and he might even come and join you for dinner!

5. ‘Will you be my Valentine?’

The old ones are the best and you can’t get much more to the point than this. Don’t waste time, beating around the bush, just ask the question!

6. ‘Thinking about you this morning. Happy Valentine’s Day!’

One of the most neutral flirty text message ideas for Valentine’s Day would be: ‘Thinking about you this morning…Happy Valentine’s Day!’ The early bird catches the prey! Get in first with this Valentine’s wake up text for him; it might stay on his mind all day long.

7. ‘I lost my teddy bear and I need a cuddle…How about you?’

You may just get a new teddy bear, but, hey, you can’t win them all.

8. ‘How’s your day been Valentine?’

This one is a no pressure, door opener for later on in the day. Give him a chance, if he’ll be feeling lonely and want some company.

9. ‘You forgot my card, where are we going tonight?’

One of the straight forward flirty text message ideas for Valentine’s Day would be: ‘You forgot my card, where are we going tonight?’ Give him a guilt trip he wasn’t expecting and he might just want to make it up to you. The forceful approach can sometimes be the best.

Feel free to share your own flirty text message ideas for Valentine’s Day in the comment section below.

Stay happy!


  1. Debora
    August 16, 2017 at 4:44 am

    Amazing tips! I can’t get enough of Valentine’s tips haha 🙂

  2. Samie T.
    February 22, 2014 at 6:46 am

    Great tips! 😀

  3. Jinna
    February 19, 2014 at 7:56 am

    Thank you for sharing these flirty ideas, love the site!

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