8 Tips on how to attract Mr Right
Are you still searching for the one and the only Mr Right? Have you been through so many Mr Wrongs that you’ve started to think that there isn’t a Mr Right for you? We know what it’s like to have been searching in vain for love, so here are eight things you might want to think about to help you in your quest of how to get a boyfriend or how to attract Mr Right:
1. Let your personality shine out
You may be the fairest maiden in the land but, if you don’t know how to laugh, Mr Right is going to get bored! Looks help, of course, but no amount of physical beauty can make up for a simple lack of fun. Be confident in yourself, guys love confidence, and you’ll stand out from the crowd.
2. Put the past behind you
OK, so you’ve had your share of heartbreak and disappointment, but don’t assume that every relationship is going to end in the same way. Onwards and upwards, as they say, the next one could be the right one.
3. Take care of yourself
Your personality is important, but, it won’t hurt to take care of your appearance too. When you look good on the outside, you have more confidence and you feel good on the inside. Don’t let the bad experiences of the past make you give up, and remember that Mr right could even be the guy standing behind you in the store tomorrow; so always try and look your best, because you can meet new people anywhere.
4. Know what you are looking for
If you wonder how to get a boyfriend, you need to know what your want. We can’t pick out Mr Right from life’s menu of perfect men, but have you really considered what it is that you are looking for? If you don’t really know what it is that you are looking for, how can you expect to ever find it? So take a sheet of paper, find 20 minutes of free time and write down those most important qualities you want your Mr Right to have, but don’t set your sights too high, no one is perfect. Knowing what you want is one of the most important steps in attracting a perfect partner.
5. Try a bit of mystery
Guys love a challenge, so don’t offload your entire life story on the first date. Leave him guessing a bit and make him want to come back to find out more.
6. Stop thinking that you have to have a partner to be happy
There’s nothing wrong with being single and if you worry too much about it you will start to come across as desperate. Enjoy your own life first, and then someone will want to enjoy it with you.
7. Build your self esteem
Know who you are and be proud of it. The worst sort of men, the predators, prey on the vulnerable women, but are scared off by the confident and self-assured ones.
8. Show some trust
It’s difficult to give trust if you’ve been hurt or betrayed before, but if you can’t trust people, Mr Right may not hang around for long. Trust is a sign of respect and affection, so give the guy a chance; he’s probably not like the last one anyway.
Some say that there is a Mr Right out there somewhere for everyone, a true soul mate, true love. If you believed that there was only one though, we wouldn’t blame you for giving up! There are hundreds of thousands of good guys out there searching for someone just like you, so just be patient, it’ll come.
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