Dating tips for girls: 8 Reasons to make the first move when you feel it in your heart
How to get a boyfriend? How to get a guy interested in you? How to get a guy you like? Is it OK for a girl to make the first move?
Well, if you have a crush on a guy, you have two options: whether you passively wait for him to come over or you make the first move yourself, and why not? This is the twenty first century, ladies, so don’t hang around, make your move and here are eight reasons why it’s OK to do it (and you will still stay a lady):
1. He simply might be shy
You could be both sitting there thinking exactly the same thing, but men can be shy too, you know. He may even be thinking that you would never date him or that you are too good to be true, so make things happen and ask him something, you don’t risk anything.
2. There’s nothing wrong with a bit of confidence
Being over confident is not attractive, but a little self-confidence is. Most guys will be impressed by girls with confidence and if he’s not interested or available, the worst that will happen is that he will politely say ‘no’.
3. You can choose
Why not be master of your own destiny and chose a prospective date for a change? After all, you can decide later, if he is a partner material or not, so why not be the decision maker now as well?
4. If you don’t, you’ll never know
Do you really want to see him with another girl the next time you bump into him? If you don’t make the move now, you might never know if he would have said ‘yes’ and remember, sometimes, if you don’t ask, then you don’t get.
5. There’s nothing to lose
There really is nothing to lose by making the first move. No one is going to think any worse of you for doing it or think you are being ‘too forward’, that way of thinking is long in the past. Even if he says ‘no’, he’s going to be flattered, so give it a go.
6. You’ll be an inspiration
Be an inspiration to your friends. They probably all wish that they had the courage to do it, so here’s your chance to show them how it’s done.
7. You get to set the pace
Making the first move puts you firmly in control right from the very start. You can decide how to start the conversion and how quickly to progress it or how quickly to end it, if you will.
8. Break with tradition
Yes, it’s traditional to wait for the guy to make the move and for you to encourage him with a bit of flirting, but that all takes time and we don’t have a lot of time these days, so break with tradition and speed up the process, there’s nothing wrong with that.
Often, people regret about chances that they never have taken in life, but they could. So, if you’ll gather all your courage, take initiative and make the first move yourself, then you can peacefully sleep at night and live your life without regrets and thoughts of how it all could turn out.
What do you think about making the first move? Have you ever done it before?
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