What are signs that a guy doesn’t like you?
We’ve already discussed signs that a guy likes you multiple times (feel free to read these posts here: Part 1, Part 2, Part 3), but what about signs that are contrary to liking? How to figure out what he feels about you? What are the signs that a guy is not into you? Today, let’s talk about signs a guy doesn’t like you, thus helping you to avoid heart breaks and the waste of time:
1) He doesn’t invite you out…
If you know that guy for a while and he still haven’t asked you out on a date, then, there is a big chance that he is not into you. Probably, it’s better to forget him and move on…
2) He says that he isn’t ready…
If he told you that he isn’t ready for a relationship, that it’s complicated and he doesn’t want to start a new story, then, probably, you should give up on hope that sometimes it’s going to work…
3) He never calls you…
If you spend hours, days and, may be, even weeks, waiting for him to call you, but it never happens, then, probably, he is just not interested. It’s time to look the truth in the eyes – stop this waiting game and move on.
4) You are in the “friends’ zone”…
If you notice that a guy treats you only as his friend: he never shows any signs of flirting, never tries to charm you anyhow, you never catch him staring at you and he never gives you compliments, then, there is a big probability that he is just not that interested.
5) He forgets all the important things about you, such as your name, your phone number and your Birthday.
If your crush tends to forget some essential and important stuff about you and you always need to remind him about it, then, it’s an obvious sign that his thoughts aren’t directed toward you and, probably, his heart isn’t yours neither.
6) He doesn’t take initiative to exchange contact information.
If you know a guy for quite a while and he never asked you for your number, nor did he ever propose to give you his, then, he, definitely, doesn’t have plans to meet you again and he leaves it all to the will of chance…A guy who is in love will do everything it takes, in order to meet his favorite girl again…
7) When he talks about future plans – you are not there…
If you notice that, while talking about future plans and events, your crush never mentions you, he never makes you “a part of his future” in the conversation, then, it’s an obvious sign that his heart is free of feelings and attachments; therefore, move on, don’t waste your precious time.
If you could recognise some of these signs in the behaviour of your crush, then, probably, it can make things clearer, help you to avoid relationship problems and it can help you save some emotions, energy and time. Forget him and move on.
Sometimes, it can be difficult to let go of the person, especially, if you are totally in love. But if your crush doesn’t like you, it’s better to move on.
Here are some “moving on” quotes that might help you to go forward:
Don’t dwell on what went wrong. Instead, focus on what to do next. Spend your energies on moving forward toward finding the answer. – Denis Waitley
I’ve been heartbroken. I’ve broken hearts. That’s part of life, and its part of figuring out who you are, so you can find the right partner. – Heidi Klum
You build on failure. You use it as a stepping stone. Close the door on the past. You don’t try to forget the mistakes, but you don’t dwell on it. You don’t let it have any of your energy, or any of your time, or any of your space. – Johnny Cash
You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing that we call ‘failure’ is not the falling down, but the staying down. – Mary Pickford
Some women feel the best cure for a broken heart is a new beau. – Gene Tierney
I hope you’ve found these dating tips for women useful.
What are, on your opinion, signs that a guy doesn’t like you or is not into you? Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments’ section below.
Stay beautiful and treasure yourself!