10 Tips on how to catch his attention without looking desperate
If you’ve been trying to get the attention of a guy for a while, but with no success, don’t give up! When you’ve exhausted all the tricks in the book that you know of and he still won’t take any notice of you, try some of these attention grabbing tips and, whatever you do, don’t look desperate:
1. Work on the wardrobe
Elegant and sophisticated is the order of the day, if you want to attract a man. The best men appreciate femininity, but not over the top. So not too revealing, but revealing enough to get his attention is the best approach. A change of wardrobe and a change of style might make him notice you and you could get a compliment too.
2. Are you smiling?
Some days are tough and you might not feel like smiling, but no one’s going to approach a girl with a grim look on her face. Don’t scare him off by looking like you’re in a bad mood all the time, smile when he’s around and show how much fun you can be.
3. Compliment him
The easiest way to flirt with a guy is to give him a compliment. Guys just love to be complimented and he will be over the moon that you noticed something about him, so go ahead and make his day. He’ll remember that you did.
4. Catch his eye
Eye contact will show him that you’re interested and it will get his attention. Look a little coy about though, and don’t stare. Just catch his eye, across the room, and then look away again, and he won’t be able to ignore you for long.
5. Be around when he’s around
Are you admiring him from afar? If you are, then you need to get in a bit closer, because of ‘can’t see you around’, he’s never going to notice you. Don’t pay him too much attention, just be around when he is and, eventually, his curiosity will get the better of him and he’ll want to know more about you.
6. Crack a few jokes
Intelligent humour is always a winner with guys, so let your sense of humour shine out when he’s near. A bit of humour lightens the mood and makes it easier to introduce yourself or for him to talk to you, and everyone likes to be around someone funny.
7. Ask for his help
Men love playing the role of provider and protector, and they are always willing to lend a helping hand to a girl in distress. Ask him to help you with a problem at work or just ask him to unscrew the cap on a bottle, anything you can come up with, so he can show how manly he is, and it will help put you firmly on his radar.
8. Play with your hair
Guys are suckers for long luscious hair, so bring his attention to yours by running your fingers through it, when you talk to him. You can try the coy fiddling with the ends of your hair or the more confident tucking your hair behind your ears, either way, he’ll love it and it will give off all the right signals.
9. Be confident in yourself
Be quietly confident, not too brash and loud, and your mysterious confidence will have him intrigued. You know that you can’t wait to find out more about him, but don’t give that away now. If anything, keep the hard to get approach going (but don’t overdo it), that will attract him far more than desperation.
10. Flirt and touch
One of the best ways to spark a man’s desire and to get him to notice you is with some gentle touching and flirting. When you are talking to him, touch him on his shoulder or on his arm, and he’ll open up to you quicker, than if you keep your distance.
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