10 Signs he is head over heels in love with you
He loves me…he loves me not…Is it just infatuation or is it real love and what is love anyway? When you have fallen for someone special in your life, you can be plagued with doubts over whether that love is really requited. You don’t want to make a complete fool of yourself and come gushing out with all your innermost feelings of love for a guy, only to find that all he has to say is ‘I’m flattered’. There are, though, some telltale signs that you can look for, that will tell you if his feelings are the same as yours, so check out our ten signs that he’s head over heels in love with you, before you start checking out wedding venues:
1. He has started to use the ‘we’ word
When he starts to use the word ‘we’, especially, when talking about the future, then you can be assured that he is beginning to think long term about this relationship. He now considers you to be an important enough part of his life to consider you in his plans for the future.
2. He chooses you over his friends, you have jumped to the top of his ‘to-do’ list
If he chooses a night in with you, instead of a night out with his buddies, then cupid’s arrow has hit the mark. Guy’s friends are important to him, so if you have jumped to the top of his ‘to-do’ list, then you are becoming even more important to him and that’s a big step for a guy.
3. He wants to get to know your family and he wants your loved ones to like him
Most guys need to be dragged screaming and kicking to go and see a girl’s parents. If he’s doing his best to get in with your family, then he’s serious about you. The in-laws, at any stage of a relationship, are never a guy’s favorite but, if he’s making the effort, it’s because he knows that it’s important to you.
4. He likes to do anything with you, absolutely anything! Your company alone is enough to keep him happy
When he’s deeply, madly in love, anything can be fun. If he seems to be wanting to be with you, even if it’s doing boring things, like shopping, doing the laundry or just snoozing at home, then it’s it a sign your company alone is enough to keep him happy.
5. He can’t keep his eyes off you
Don’t think it’s creepy, if you keep finding your guy looking at you, it’s just that he can’t believe his luck! This guy is really smitten and he doesn’t want to miss a moment of his time with you.
6. His friends are getting bored hearing about you
If you met his friends and they seem to already know everything that there is to know about you, then he has been boring his buddies senseless with endless talk about the new love in his life – you! That’s got to be a good sign!
7. He makes the effort to please you
When he stops the showing off and begins to make real efforts to please you, then you know something is afoot in the love department. The biggest signpost here is when he takes you places that you want to go, even if he hates it himself, that’s called making a huge sacrifice!
8. He misses you when you are not around
Have you started to get random telephone calls and text messages from your man for no apparent reason? If your answer is ‘yes’, then your guy is totally head over heels in love and he simply can’t bear to be apart from you.
9. He trusts you with his secrets
Guys don’t talk about anything personal with someone they don’t really trust. If he is opening up his soul to you and discussing his fears, as well as his ambitions, then he is displaying a level of trust that a man reserves solely for those that he feels close too.
10. He’s always putting you first and trying to help
If he is going out of his way to help you whenever he can, then he is starting to take on the role of your protector. Whether it’s giving sound and thoughtful advice or simply jumping swiftly to pick up something that you have dropped on the floor, this man wants to be there for you, because he cares.
What are other signs that he is deeply in love? Please, feel free to share your thoughts and love advice in the comment section below.