10 Encouraging tips for ladies who never been kissed
The first time you do anything can be a nervous experience and kissing is definitely no exception but hey, everyone has to start somewhere. If you’re not sure what to expect from your first kiss, don’t feel bad, just read these 10 tips:
This one is totally up to you, of course, but if you trust the guy you’re thinking about kissing (and hopefully you do), you should be able to be upfront with him. Any decent guy wouldn’t make fun of you; they’d know how to take it slow with you, so you’ll be comfortable.
Despite what you may have heard, the first kiss doesn’t have to be magical or perfect or amazing. Just like anything else, it’s a learning process and you can keep working on it for your whole life.
You might be excited or really like this guy a lot, but when you’re just learning, it’s perfectly fine to take it slow. Start with a few soft kisses before you start thinking about what to do with your tongue and other such techniques. Don’t stress about getting better quickly, just do what feels right.
Now for a more practical kissing tip, the phrase “kissable looking lips” is really just a phrase. Lip gloss makes things slippery and messy and guys really prefer the feel of naked lips.
You’re probably going to be a bit nervous in the first place, you don’t need to make it worse by feeling like you have an audience.
If you don’t feel as though you need to do anything with your hands, you don’t have to, but if you find yourself feeling a little awkward and not knowing where to put them, there are a few options. Simply holding his hand is sweet or you can hold on to his shoulders, face or hair, if you’re feeling a little more bold. Any of these things are totally natural and he’ll think it feels great.
All this new kissing stuff can be overwhelming, so in the moment of trying to concentrate, try to remember to keep your eyes closed. It’s ok to sneak a peek every once in a while but it can be a little weird having your eyes open, when they’re that close to someone else. If he opens his eyes and sees you, you’ll probably resemble a Cyclops, so make sure to close your eyes and enjoy the moment.
This is especially true, if it’s your first time and not his. Wait for him to come to you and just watch what he does. If he tilts his head one way, tilt yours the other. Be receptive but let him set the pace.
This is only your first kiss of many; you don’t need to drag it out for ages. Save it for the end of a date and keep it short and sweet. Try to be the one to pull away first to leave him waiting with anticipation for the next time, which will be much easier and more fun.
A bad kiss is not the end of the world and it certainly won’t make a guy not like you anymore. It’s perfectly natural to be nervous but don’t let it scare you so much that you don’t even want to try, or that you will freak out when it’s time to pucker up. The best way to make your first kiss an enjoyable experience is to do it with somebody you love, trust and who makes you feel as relaxed as possible.
Do you have some other good kissing tips to share?