10 Undeniable signs a guy is attracted to you
Men are from Mars and women are from Venus, which is basically a polite way of saying that we don’t understand guys and they don’t understand us.
This kind of thing only occasionally becomes problematic. For example, whenever we ask a guy who is playing on his Xbox what he wants for dinner tonight, a grunt is pretty hard to decipher. It either means, “STOP TALKING TO ME, I’M TRYING TO KILL SOME ZOMBIES” or it means, “JUST MAKE ME ANYTHING, I’M TRYING TO KILL SOME ZOMBIES.”
When it really becomes problematic is when we’re trying to work out whether a guy is attracted to us or not. We’re told that guys send out signals to let us know they’re interested. But as we all well know, these “guy signals” can only be understood by other guys. To us, girls, they’re totally meaningless.
So if you’re wondering how to decode a guy’s signals, let’s take a look at some of the undeniable signs that mean a guy is really into you.
He’ll Bare His Teeth
When a lion bares its teeth, it usually means that it’s going to eat you.
The same with a crocodile.
Basically, it’s time to run. Now.
Happily, if a man bares his teeth, it means that he’s really, REALLY happy about something. It means he’s really into you!
See, guys typically stop smiling with their teeth when they’re about 5-years-old. They’ll smile, but they won’t bare their pearly whites. Unless they’re really happy about something.
He Licks His Lips
When a lion licks its lips, it usually means that it’s going to eat you.
The same with a tiger.
Basically, they’re hungry and you’re on the menu.
So run. NOW.
If a serial killer licks his lips, it also means that he’s either going to eat you or do something really weird to you.
BUT, if a cute guy licks his lips, it means that he’s undeniably attracted to you. See, licking our lips when we fancy someone is something we do subconsciously. We don’t know we’re doing it! But it’s our brains way of saying: “I like that person.”
He Looks At Your Face
There was a time when guys would stare into our eyes all the time if they were attracted to us, but they’ve realised that it actually makes us feel a little bit uncomfortable.
It also makes us worry that they’re possibly trying to hypnotise us.
These days, if a guy has got the hots for you, he’ll spend his time locking eyes with your whole face. He’ll look at your nose, your ears, your eyes, your lips. He’ll cover everything, trying to work out why you look so awesome.
He Leans Forward During A Conversation
No, we don’t particularly like it when creeps lean forward when we’re trying to eat a meal. It’s obnoxious and annoying.
But when a guy is really into you, he’ll lean forward when you’re talking. In a noisy bar, this sign probably doesn’t mean much. After all, he’s just trying to hear what you have to say.
But when the noise levels are already pretty low, leaning forward means that he’s really interested in what you’re saying. And he’s also really interested in you. Lovely!
He Smiles A Lot
Lots of people smile when they greet someone. Sometimes, we smile whenever we’re caught staring at someone. It breaks the ice and makes the other person feel more comfortable.
But you tend to know when a guy is undeniably interested in you by the frequency of their smiles. Typically, a guy doesn’t smile all that much. But if you notice that a particular guy is smiling a LOT, it means that he’s attracted to you.
If he smiles each time you lock eyes, it’s a surefire sign that you’ve cast your spell over this one.
He’ll Lower His Voice
Guys lower their voices when talking to women they’re attracted to because they think it makes them sound warmer and more likeable.
It’s probably true.
Naturally, you don’t want them to lower it so much that you have to keep asking them to repeat themselves. That’s just awkward.
He Gets Jealous When You Talk To Other Men
There are two kinds of jealousy: good jealousy and bad jealousy.
Bad jealousy is the kind where a man positively explodes over the smallest things, steals your phone and locks you in the house.
Good jealousy is the kind where a man who is deeply attracted to you tries really hard not to show that he’s annoyed when you’re talking to other men – but shows it anyway.
This kind of jealousy is actually quite attractive to women; it shows us that a man is getting flummoxed by what we’re doing. It shows us that he’s got the hots for us.
Warning: Don’t make him even more jealous by talking to 2 guys at the same time. This might scare him off totally.
He Starts Talking To You On Social Media
Social media is a great way for a guy to let you know he’s interested without being overly obvious. While he obviously can’t second guess where you’ll be in the real world, he knows that you will spend some of your day on Facebook.
There are subtle signs you can watch out for: for example, he might start liking your statuses, posting funny memes on your wall, or even sending you direct messages. If his interest is sudden and frequent, it shows that he’s totally interested in you.
He Stands Real Close
Normally, we remain at a respectful distance from the people we are talking to. We give them adequate personal space. It’s only polite.
However, if a man is into you, he’ll invade your personal space ever so slightly. He won’t invade it so much that you think Darth Vader is coming to get you, but he’ll definitely stand noticeably closer to you.
This is a subconscious (or even conscious) body language technique that guys have learned through years of evolution… and clubbing.
He’s Eager To Please
If a guy is attracted to you, he’ll be keen to please. He’ll ask how you are, how your day was, and whether or not there is anything he can do for you that will enhance your life. Perhaps he can get you tickets to an event or maybe he can fix your car?
Do you know other signs a guy is attracted to you?