10 Tips On How To Be Happy, Enjoy Life And Let Love Find You
Most people think that to meet their Prince Charming, they have to go out and look for him. But this is a popular misconception. Instead, you should relax, enjoy yourself – and let love find you.
Love is the best feeling in the world. It’s that thumping noise in your breast when your man is on his way home. It’s those butterflies in your stomach when he kisses you. Love makes the world seem so much better, and we’d all rather be in love than not in love.
Unfortunately, true love doesn’t come so easily for some of us. Sometimes, it takes its time to knock at our door.
Watching your friends get married and have children while you’re still waiting for your prince to come along can make your heart ache. It’s enough to drive you crazy, leaving you wondering if you’ll find true love. But desperately searching for it won’t help.
Here are 10 tips on how to be happy, enjoy life and let love find you.
Focus On Loving Yourself
If you can’t love yourself, love will find it very hard to come to you. Self-love is more important than anything else right now, and you should use this time to shift the focus to you.
Tell yourself how beautiful you are. Pamper yourself and look after your body. Don’t be willing to accept second best for yourself.
If you’ve been finding it hard to love yourself recently, now is the time to start doing is to that you begin to an exude a confidence that guys will warm to. Once you start loving yourself, you’ll be amazed by how much others can see this. And for guys, women who love themselves is very attractive.
Invest In Yourself
The best thing you can invest in is yourself. The better you are as an individual, the more likely it is that the man of your dreams will find you.
Spend this time improving yourself. Expand your knowledge base. Get fitter. Change your career. Add new skills. Do the things now that will make it easier for true love to find you.
There are few truer sayings in life than we are what we eat. What we eat can affect not only the way we look, but also the way we feel about ourselves.
Have you ever been on a binge where you’ve eaten nothing but junk, only to feel unattractive afterwards? It happens. When our diet is poor, and when we know it’s poor, we can easily feel disgusted with ourselves.
And when we feel disgusted with ourselves, love doesn’t exactly come easily.
Eating healthily makes you feel good about yourself and improves your relationship with your body. Eat fruit, vegetables and whole grains. Get your five a day. Feel good knowing that you’re putting the right things into your body.
If you’re sick and fed up of hanging around the same town all the time waiting for Mr Right, why not have a change of scenery?
Going travelling solo is one of the best things to do when you’re young. Not only will you get the chance to explore and soak up new places and cultures, but you may also find that a holiday romance is on the cards.
Don’t go looking for it, though. Go travelling to enjoy yourself, and to learn more about the world around you. Learn more about yourself, too. If you meet the man of your dreams, that’s a bonus.
Take Up A New Hobby
Got some time on your hands? Take up a new hobby. Do something you’ve always wanted to do. Take classes in it. Who knows where it could lead you?
Get Off The Dating Sites
If you’ve been using online dating sites for a good while now and your situation still hasn’t changed, it might be time to give yourself a break.
While dating sites do work for some people, they don’t work all the time for all of us. Especially if you’ve been on there for a while and suffered awful date after awful date, it can knock your self-esteem and make you feel so frustrated that you chase love even harder and fail even harder.
Disable your profile for a while. Spend less time getting frustrated with knock backs and bad dates and more time getting out there and living your life.
Be Grateful For What You Have
The more you practice gratitude, the more you’ll realise what a wonderful world this is. You’ll feel better about yourself and your place in the world, and this will only improve your chances of finding love.
Hang Out With Positive People
It’s easy for the people we hang out with all the time to rub off on us so much that we begin to adopt their personality. This is okay if we hang out with fun-loving, positive people – but it’s a lot less okay if we hang out with gloomy, negative types.
You might not realise it, but the company you keep may be making you feel a bit pessimistic about life. They may be preventing you from enjoying yourself, being happy, and finding love.
If you can, try to surround yourself with positive people who feel good about themselves. In turn, you will start to feel positive about yourself. The more you feel positive about yourself, the greater the likelihood that love will come to you. Love, after all, feeds off positive energy.
Do Things By Yourself
Can you really go to the cinema by yourself? Heck yeah! You’re not going to miss a movie just because your friends can’t make it.
Do What You Love To Do
They say that if we do more of what we love to do and less of what we hate, we will begin to live the life we actually want to live – as opposed to the life we really don’t want to live.
When you spend time doing the things you love doing, you’ll do them with a smile on your face. You’ll go to places you actually want to go to, and your enthusiasm and passion can enlarge your world, opening you up to new opportunities and new people.
Make a list of the things in life that bring you the most happiness, and try to focus on them more than anything else.