We Are Going To Help You Find Mr Right … Here Are Qualities To Look For
Okay, so you’ve already dated Mr Lazy, Mr Loser, Mr Arrogant and Mr Creepy. Now it’s time to knuckle down and find Mr Right. And we’re here to help.
The good news is that Mr Right is out there somewhere. You might be protesting that, if he is out there somewhere, why haven’t I found him yet?
There may be many reasons why you haven’t yet found your Prince, but arguably the biggest one is that you probably don’t have a strategy and you’re looking in all the wrong places.
But a lot of the time it’s a case that we’re not the best at distinguishing between Mr Right and Mr Wrong.
In this article, we’re not going to lay out a strategy that will help you find the right man. Instead, we’re going to take a look at the qualities that Mr Right has and Mr Wrong doesn’t. This will help you to filter out the time wasters so that you can focus your energy on the right men. Let’s take a look!
In the past, you might have decided to let the odd white lie slide. It was no big deal. Maybe he kept something from you because he didn’t to hurt you.
But dishonesty really should be a deal breaker. You know what they say – a cheetah never loses its spots. Once a liar, always a liar.
This is very true. Mr Right is always upfront an honest with you about everything. They keep no secrets, and they certainly don’t hide behind the whole “oh, I didn’t tell you because I didn’t want to hurt you” excuse.
What else are they hiding that would hurt you?
He Accepts Your Flaws
We all have flaws. But where flaws would see Mr Wrong running a mile, they see Mr Right accepting them.
Hey, he might not agree with your bad qualities. But he certainly doesn’t make you feel guilty for them. He understands that we all have flaws (he has some too!). It’s what makes us human.
“He’s nice but dim.”
Ever heard a friend describe their boyfriend to you like this? Perhaps you’ve described a past boyfriend to a friend exactly like this. He was a bit dim but SO loveable and cute.
Eventually, even the cuteness no longer mattered because you got bored. And that’s what happens when you date dim people.
Intelligence is very attractive. Mr Right has it in spades. He can keep a conversation going for hours, is always willing to discuss new ideas, and is ready to challenge your preconceptions.
The best thing about dating intelligent guys? You get to grow with them.
He’s Always There For You
Ever tried calling a boyfriend when you really needed to talk, only for him to tell you that now is not a good time?
Or worse still, he didn’t even take your call?
If he does this once, it’s fair enough. Maybe he really is busy. But Mr Right ALWAYS tries to be there for you, even when it’s not exactly convenient to him. You can always count on him to listen to your problems, whether it’s the middle of the night or the middle of a sports game.
He Has An Open Mind
Mr Wrong has a very closed-mind. He isn’t willing to accept or even listen to new opinions and ideas. He’s stubborn and resolute. He knows what he stands for and isn’t willing to try something different.
With a guy like this, you’re hardly going to have a life of adventure. You want to try eating at a different restaurant tonight, but he won’t because he’s “heard bad things about Korean food.”
Mr Right, on the other hand, reserves judgement until he’s tried something first. He doesn’t dismiss something out of hand without first exploring it. He’s also open to new ideas that challenge his own.
He Wants Your Opinion
If Mr Wrong has a decision to make, big or small, he’s probably not going to ask you for your opinion. Why? Because he doesn’t really trust you enough.
Mr Right does. He respects and values your opinion, and when he’s got a decision to make – big or small – he always seeks out your advice.
A guy who thinks he’s funny but really isn’t – is there anything worse?
A guy who knows he isn’t funny but still tells rubbish jokes is at least endearing and funny in his own way. He’s cute.
But a guy who is witty and has you rolling around laughing is a winner. He’s Mr Right.
Your partner should be able to make you laugh. When you need cheering up after a bad day, he should be the one who can lift your spirits.
He Listens To You
How many times have you had to repeat something to a man because he hasn’t listened? It’s a surefire sign that you’re dealing with Mr Wrong.
Mr Right, on the other hand, doesn’t do misunderstandings. He’s always actively listening to what you have to say.
Don’t you just love it when, on the days you’re not feeling too well, your partner comes home and does the chores for you? He even runs a bath for you and makes dinner, even though he’s got a lot of work to do.
He does all of that because he’s Mr Right who cares for you and wants to look after you.
Mr Wrong, on the other hand, goes missing during the times when you need him most. When you’re ill and need looking after, he STILL insists on going out with his friends.
Mr Right isn’t like that at all. You always come first.
Women want men who do what they say they’re going to do. We like consistency – and that’s exactly what Mr Right deals in. He is consistent to a tee, and he won’t let you down.